What would you grab?
There was a house fire in the mission district in San Francisco this evening. Actually, I think three houses burned. It was just a few blocks from our house, but some friends of ours share a back alley with the burning buildings. As we were driving home, keeping tabs on the status via their Twitter updates Thor asked me, “If we had to go home right now and grab what we could out of the house in just a few minutes to save it from fire, what would you grab?”
Pretty much without missing a beat I said, “The computer hard drive with years of photos and the boxes of photos up in the downstairs closet.”…. “Oh! And the photo albums in the upstairs closet. And the box of digital video tapes. And my engagement ring.” I realized that when push comes to shove what matters most are those things that can’t be replaced, and more specifically, items that represent memories. I’ve got a house full of things that I like and enjoy, but there’s not much that would be heart-breaking to lose. I’ve continued to think about this scenario throughout the evening and have added my friend, Ani’s painting that’s hanging over our sofa to the list. But there isn’t much else that I would risk myself for. I’m obviously not alone. It makes one realize how unimportant “stuff” is. It also makes me realize that I should really consolidate the things that I would want to save so they can all be quickly grabbed. Ok, so it’s a morbid thought but it doesn’t hurt to be prepared.
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March 19th, 2008 at 5:39 am
Nice to meet you, Mommybrain! I enjoy your blog — very relate-able. Just read “Hop on Pop” last night to my five year old. If you think that’s long, you should try “If I Ran the Zoo.”
FYI - I’m Marcus Nelson’s other half. Looking forward to your other writings.
March 19th, 2008 at 7:06 am
Thanks, Emily! I look forward to meeting you in person one of these days.
April 5th, 2008 at 10:31 am
As a fairly recent, middle of the night housefire - lost everything - kinda guy, I’d have to say that when it really comes down to it, ‘it’ is nothing like you’d imagine. No time for anything. After instantly becoming awake to the cry of ‘Shit! The house is on fire get the F**K out, NOW!’ I was able to grab my 1y/o like a sack of potatoes, and when it came to the point of entering the smoke filled staircase to get out, something else took over and through the smoke we went, through the fully involved lower floor to the door. All by memory because the wildest thing was how THICK the smoke is, you really can’t see a thing but glow all around you of orange, fading to black/brown.
Heavy. I watched my hard drives with 8 years of work and the ‘backup drive’ I thought would be safe waving to me in the form of a little blue flame flickering through the mess.
Zen does overcome you, regret lingers, and you move forward. The finalty, I’d say, is the same -but exact opposite- to having your first kid. Just a fact.. and you keep on keeping on… cheers! keep up the great work with kid(s!) and startup. Great stuff.
April 5th, 2008 at 11:38 am
Wow that’s intense. Actually, there are not sufficient words to describe what that is. I’m glad you and your baby got out ok. Thank you for sharing your story. It’s a good reminder that nothing is permanent.